Discover if Who You're Being is Helping You're Dreams Come True
By Cari Rauch
Are you the Actor in your life or are you the Reactor to your life? This may seem like a strange question but it's an important one. Knowing which one you are can help understand why you are where you are in your life and it can also help you transform it. For a majority of my life I used to be the reactor in most areas anyways and didn't even know it. Frankly, I didn't even know I had a choice.
Being a reactor is fairly common; however, it's very dis-empowering because we are literally reacting to life instead of choosing to live life. Here's some important distinctions between the two.
If you are wanting more meaningful and loving relationships, a healthy and fit body you love, a career that you love, financial abundance, or more fun, laughter and enjoyment in your life - then you will want to learn how to be the actor in your life and stop being a reactor.
Here's a quick way to start being the Actor in your life:
Learn to appreciate and let go of complaining and blaming. Notice any time you start to complain or blame - stop and remind yourself to appreciate something (it doesn't need to be about the thing you're complaining about or the person either - it can be as simple as appreciating the sun, fresh air, being alive.)
Being the Actor of our life is how we create the life we dream of - it's done by making the choice. Who do you want to choose to be - the Actor or Reactor?
Cari Rauch is a Certified Life Coach. She is dedicated to empowering women to create and live an extraordinary life they love. Her mission is to inspire women to fall in love with their life through delighting in their everyday experiences, indulging in pleasure and play, and creating memories that last a lifetime. She teaches her clients the secrets to designing a life they love, becoming the women they desire to be and cultivating an incredible journey by having the time of their life each step of the way. If you are interested in knowing the SECRET to Creating & Living a Life you Love, you can get it FREE at http://www.carirauch.com