and Feng Shui
by Patty Malek
So let’s look at the Bedroom of our Lives…
What is our relationship with ourselves and our partners. Do we love ourselves or are we attracting relationships that leave us unfulfilled. Do we have programmed responses from the past that our inhibiting growth in our current relationships. Are we hanging onto relationships that are no longer serving our higher good because of a fear of letting go, a fear of the unknown. Align your inner beliefs and feelings so that you can attract a relationship. A loving relationship with yourself will strengthen your Chi and make you more attractive as a partner. Being able to enjoy your own company is where your essence and true power center resonates from.
What is going on in the bedroom? Are we able to open ourselves freely, sexually? Are the lines of communication open in your relationship? Clear the chi, energy by telling your partner what you are feeling, and ask your partner what would make them happy.
Have we created an asthetically pleasing environment that will attract love into our life. If single, the bedroom should not be too feminine or too masculine. Objects provided in pairs provide balance and togetherness. Nightstands in pairs with lamps, pairs of candlesticks, or birds in pairs are good Feng Shui. Romantic spontaneity is hampered by a sea of pillows on the bed. Design an unencumbered bed that you can fall into. If single, make sure all the artwork in your home is not all female or all male. Balancing the energy of male and female will greatly encourage a relationship. Avoid ceiling fans or wood beams over the bed as they will disrupt the marriage. Do not keep exercise equipment or a work desk in the room as they will make your marriage feel like work. For couples, your romantic life will improve if photos of kids and family aren’t staring at you in bed. As hard as it may be, the energy of your photos of your children do not belong in your intimate relationship with your spouse. There are many places in the home for these treasures. Honor that part of your relationship.
Make sure the bed is in the command position that provides a view of the door and allows chi to flow around both sides and under the bed. Make sure there is no clutter under the bed or elsewhere for that matter.
Aligning the chi, energy in the bedroom will help to remove obstacles to attracting love into your life. The bedroom is one of the most important rooms in your home for creating and maintaining healthy relationships. Look around the bedroom, sit and feel the energy of the room. Does it feel and look lonely, sad, or lifeless? Is the environment begging for joy?
Light green or light blue are best colors to promote good sleep. Stay away from too much Red as it is a fire color, which is great for your sex life but on the other hand you will probably not get as much sleep as necessary to keep the balance in your life. Pink is the best color as it represents love, happiness and romance. Peach is a good color if you are single to attract love, but once married, paint that bedroom as peach can also lead to adultery.