by Bradley Wallis
Listen to our Soul Talk interview with Kasey & Brad Wallis on Unworthiness and Shame below
Have you ever felt embarrassed or ashamed? Do you understand or have you ever thought to yourself that these 2 reactions are the most damaging forms of judgment you could have or put yourself through in the human existence?
You ask yourself, REALLY? How is that possible?
Embarrassment or feeling ashamed of something is the harshest of judgments against yourself!
And in allowing this judgment of self, you allow yourself, and your life, to become extremely limited by these emotionally binding states. You allow others to dictate how you should be and what you should do. You give away your power, and you lose touch with your amazing potential.
Once you judge yourself for whatever it is you have done in your life, or in the experiences you have had in your journey here, you then have built a foundation for judgment of others! You literally have provided a platform to hold others responsible for your own doing, forcing others to conform to your own requirements...
...And when they don't agree with what you have done, or what is being said, or when they don't feel the same way as you do about something, a judgment is made by one person or the other.
“When you judge another, you do so because you judge yourself.”
Almost from the time we arrive here, we are judged and expected to perform, obey, and act in certain accepted ways...
...You are a boy, you are a girl, you are of a certain nationality, you have a certain color of hair or eyes.
Do you see where this is going? How many of you have heard those words come from someone else's mouth, or even your own? How many of you have heard or said, “If you don't do this or don't do that, you will embarrass us or our family.” What you are doing, or what you have done to yourself, has led you to the point of unworthiness. Unworthy of who?
We know that you are Source in Form, and therefore are worthy of all. In fact, having created the all, why would you hold yourself unworthy of that which you created, that which you have done, that which you have experienced?
When each human being can see themselves as the light that is Source, they will be able to see all others as Source as well, as light beings just as they are, just as important, and all experiencing the ALL for Source. What do you think the statement made a long time ago means?...
“WE ARE ALL ONE”
When human beings begin to understand and comprehend this statement to be just what it says...ALL ONE...it will be the healing process of Judgment and Shame.
This is the state when Expansion moves into Compassion, from which states all understanding and forgiveness flows. Understanding another, not controlling another is Compassion. It is the ability to understand the other's battles, suffering, anger, violence and shame because you have been there yourself, when you did not know your own power, when you did not understand who you really were.
Helping all to know their extraordinary power and worthiness is the demonstration of all Masters and Light Beings everywhere. They seek to inspire all others to know this truth about themselves, to know that it is not just a fortunate or blessed few who are worthy of being what they are demonstrating.
YOU are among this group of not just a select few. You are just like everyone else, and they are just like you, just as important as you are, and each experiencing their experiences in their own way. This is how Source gets to know and experience the ALL. We will continue to support this remembering within you and allow truth and compassionate understanding for self, and the all, to surface.
Shame, Unworthiness, Embarrassment, Judgment - these are the reactions of Man against himself and all others. Inner healing and mindful insight will unleash the healing powers that reside deep within your own embodiment, allowing the Light to shine through and illuminate the world.
Do you know who you are? Do you understand how powerful you are in everything? Would you look at experiences you have had, or decisions you have made in your life, and see them differently if you knew this? How much of a difference would it make in your life if you knew this? Would you also look at others differently?
Judgment is the most difficult, challenging and resistant experience faced by human beings on this plane of existence. Humans judge everything! It's too hot! It's too cold! It's too this, or it's too that! Everything gets judged here on this earthly realm...
...It's good or it's bad. Maybe we should ask the question: Good for whom or bad for whom? Is not all just an experience of something? Do you see how you judge even an experience? And then you label it as good or bad? When it gets labeled as something, it then brings about shame or unworthiness because you have judged what it is you are doing! Can you see how it works?
We at Expand With Julius offer extensive courses and teachings on many vital aspects of the human experience. We are trying to get you to see things differently because when you do, you will heal and move into fulfilment. We want you to become aware of who you are. We allow you the freedom to do as you please, so to speak. We do not judge you in one form or another. We understand it all expands Source, and as you expand, others will expand too.
Are you the creator of your existence?... Or are you the reactor to what is going on around you? Do you choose to create, or react?
It is really how you ”C” things. Just move the “C” and the word changes its meaning... a fun little play on words in this existence.
Let's get you and everyone else seeing things differently, and having fun in this life. Until the next time that we have the privilege of interacting with you... As It Will Be.
In 2008, Brad Wallis was in a car accident after which he had a near death experience. In the 8 hours he was gone, he was being taught by a group of beings who agreed to come back him, when Brad agreed to come back, to teach human beings what this realm of existence is all about. Brad's brain is still healing after the accident, and his wife Kasey became an open conduit for Julius, the name of the group of multi-dimensional, high light, high energy beings. Brad & Kasey Wallis now devote their life to sharing Julius's teachings.